But while you are frozen in amber by this relationship with this other person, I feel that you have lost your momentum and the drive to move forward, and I am leaving you behind. All I see is stagnation for you, pulled over on the shoulder of this road of life. All I see is repetition of old habits, old mistakes, including mistakes by you that echo those made by others in your family. That's the view I see in my rear view mirror. And I am so very sorry for you.
NoCodeBlues, You poured your heart and soul into this. I completely relate to this paragraph especially. That's pretty much how I feel about my H right now. And I feel really sorry for him, too.
