Catching up on your sitch at the moment, seems to be some major trust issues.
Just a question. Are you pushing this too far, too fast? I think the letter is putting a lot of pressure on him, he is acting out of fear , why?
I totally agree with the parole officer,mother thing, I was the "adult" in my R and I was bloody sick of it. It is not a good place to be , all the time anyway! I was then told I was controlling because I was prepared to take the resposibility!
It seems she can do OK now , why not when we were together.
Anyway this is your thread not mine.
Your H is lying to protect YOU from what? He is lying to protect himself, he does need to grow up and not make you the adult all the time here. JMHO.
By the way I have read the Eckart Tolle book, got a lot out of it!Thanks for the tip mate.
