Now I've done it... again

[nephartiti]

I had my cell off, but apparantly H has been trying to reach me since 8:10 AM. rwo text messages and two v-mails. Says he's been trying to reach me for 2 days. He hopes everythng is ok and wants to know how the kids are. Um, yeah, last night he left a msg re: storage. I sent an e-mail at 2 AM this morning stating he may pick up his things here if/when he wants, but I need min 1 day notice. He's been trying to reach me less than 24 hrs. Two days? Ha! He is delusional.

Everyone be proud of me, I did not call back. I sent him a Text msg, so he doesn't show up over the wall again. The text said to check his e-mail and the kids are great. He responded immediately. "K. Thanks"

I'm seeing a pattern here. Two of the 3 kid visits have been on Saturdays. Now it's Sat, and he's trying to reach us again. Why can't he come see them during the week while she's at work?

Speculation (I know, I can't help it LOL):
1. She is not available on Sat, so he wants to see his kids by default. Could this mean she is still w/ her BF and has to spend time w/him? They only have their work week together? Could her BF be so naive to beliee they are really just griends, and let my H stay there? That's just too weird.
2. He wants to see the kids and her at the same time. Yuck!

The first Sat visit, they were here for most of the day. Then H took S2 out for 3 hours, supposedly to his aunt's. I don't know if this is true. Second visit was supposedly a 6 hour trip to the park till after dark (on a Tuesday afternoon). Hmmmm. Don't know about that one either. Last Saturday, was the mysterious hotel sleep over in Riverside...

Anyway, when he ASKS to see the kids, I am going to say he may see them during the week in the mornings for the convenience of our schedule. Setting some boundaries. Going to try to set up a regular schedule :T, Th, Fr. Also, no more overnights at this time. I won't accuse him. I'll just say it is because they are too little to be away from home and mama. This should get us through the end of Oct when he goes back to work. I can justify no weekends b/c I have S9 and have made an agreement w/his father that there will be no contact for him with my H. S9 and H have a rocky history, to say the least. As an extra bonus, I will cut into his time w/OW and he'll have to find something else to do on the weekends. That paart's a gamble if they have thw weekends together, but the arrangement is more comfortable for me.

What do you guys think of this plan?