Yoyo, I will email you in a bit as I am having family pressure put on me at the moment.
Husband - your sitch is slightly different in that your W is not still actively seeing OM. Will write a bit more later. I can see exactly what Sara is saying tho' and why!!
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength