You handled that so beautifully last night, I hope you can hold onto that comfort. So many of us are really having blue spells right now, I'm wondering if there is some larger cosmic force at work!
IMO you were very generous about OW, and that is probably safest for your own peace of mind. OTOH as others have posted, she is pursuing her own interests at the cost of a wife and children.
Take care nic and keep posting. I hope this weekend goes well.