No, there may be no way to enforce it but that does not mean you can not bring it up in mediation and put it in writing. It is not a legal and binding contract, more like an agreement that the childen have no contact with cohabitating non married persons for fill-in-the-blank 3-12 months after the divorce? That sounds good to me and I would agree to that. If we presuppose that there has been no infidelity and no R talk about OP than we can presuppose that good people do not sleep around with OP until they are no longer married. It would help the children transition if the people parents date not be introduced until after an alotted time post divorce. Plain and simple, don't bring in a new person until you know it is a stable R. Otherwise that will only hurt the children further. Plus, children already feel betrayed enough, as though we have taught them that mommy and daddy love each other, oops no they don't.
I am now off the soap box. Everything I wrote is just a fantasy but hey I am sticking to it. Next week Oprah will have an expert on talking to kids about divorce.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
