Is it me or is this just completely cr@p behaviour?
It's crappy behavior reminiscent of a sullen teenager. You're then placed in the " bad parent" role, and your H doesn't see how he provoked this.
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I was dancing around the kitchen this morning because there was a really cool reggae track on the radio from the 80s and it pushed my dance button (doesn't take much - LOL).
You're reminding me of MJ!
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But my next thought was that the first thing I would do if I found I was terminally ill would be leave my H.
I just stopped right there and started crying. The realisation that I am really wasting my life with H and that if I knew I had only 6 months to live or whatever I wouldn't be doing this anymore.
The dichotomy between the happiness and sadness here is heart breaking. I am beinning to see how many of us on the BB are on the same page...we need to work on asserting ourselves and knowing our boundaries, while not allowing our spouses to push us into the parent role.
A day at a time, a day at a time. Blast the music, and think sexy, vibrant thoughts!
