I have nothing to add to what everyone has been saying. I think you have taken the not-so-subtle hint from the others. Only you can change these destructive behaviors the two of you have gotten into. I hope H is as receptive to all this info as you have been.
Anyway, my prayers are with you. Big hugs,
Erin
"A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing."
-George Bernard Shaw
