I feel for you. I'm teatering on the same sitch. Not sure on advice but, I'm thinking of setting a timeframe in my mind (not setting a time limit for her) and if my w hasn't came around by that time then tell her lets start the d. Then it comes back to, What if I had waited a little longer?
Anyway it sucks! Just wanted you to know I'm thinking about you and your not alone in this sitch.
