Ok, guys and gals, my last thread locked, so here we go again. I added a little to my subject line, b/c I had to face the facts...as some pointed out to me....that I am still a WAW in my heart/brain. So, that is where I am and still here in the SSM forum trying to take baby steps in recovering from not a "dry period" of no sex.....but over a decade of no sex....longer than most of you have been married. It is hard to say the very least.
If I can encourage any of you to avoid any of the stupid things I've done and the mistakes my H made.....I'll do whatever I can. In the meantime, I am at work myself. I am here every day reading and throwing my thoughts around. Feel free to ask anything you want. I may not have answers, but I usually have MHO.....lol.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!