SO2 - "plan B's" suck. Why can't they just commit 100%? My H loves his life with me but wants the other thing on the side. It's just all a sick game - who's going to give up first? me or ow? I have a feeling it's going to be me.
So, what happens when I declare that it's over? The cat is out of the bag. I wonder what the church will think of one of it's leaders who won't give up his affair, how will he like being shunned by my family, what will his friends think of him????