Hope I am so sorry that your beautiful home had to be sold. However, the fact that H is now contacting you again seems to me to be him showing that he needed to do this in order to move along in his journey through the tunnel. Just be there for him as you have been, be patient and I firmly believe that in time you will be together again (if that is what YOU want).
Take care
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15