I am teetering between just dropping "the bomb" and working a little longer. I’m so confused. My Positive Thinking and actions seem to be working. The Next phase is to act like it has already happened. Well that would mean that I walk up to my W and give her a hug when I felt like it. By the way I moved from giving her a kiss on the forehead thanking her for dinner to a kiss on the cheek. She does not turn away but she makes no effort to kiss me back either. I was kind of thinking the dinner / dancing may be a bit too much of a jump. I am writing a letter that I may E-mail her on my first day of work. (Which is the Monday after this event) To let her know that being room mates is not working for me and I have given her 5 months to figure things out. If she does not want to work things out then I can’t keep our Secret any longer from the family. (not the wording I will use)
(does this sound like black mail)
Husband
Last edited by husband; 09/22/0703:00 PM.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know