BM in recent times you have been there for me. I wish I could be there for you in the same way. I've been where you are but did not recognise it at the time b/c it was post reconciliaton last time. I did nothing b/c I didn't know i had to. I ended up with a H who had yet more PAs and as you know is now living with someone nearly half his age. I know you won't make the same mistake I did b/c you already have put actions into motion. Just wanted you to know I am thinking of you and hope that you and your H can finally work this out.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15