What could this ow be thinking? She's been carrying on with a married man for a year. H's told her how cold and uncaring his wife is...blahblahblah. But, he has not left me. So, after a year and the break-up of her own family, does she really think that she and my H are going to live happily ever after? How long does the ow stay hanging around? She still buys H presents and acts like his wife but she rarely sees him except for "lunches". H's even told her to cut back on her calls on evenings/weekends. How long does a person stay in such a seemingly unfullfilling relationship? I don't get it.. Can someone please help me understand the dynamics here?
I guess the answer to my question is that he must be telling her that he is going to end it with me at some point. So, he's leading her on just like he's leading me on, right?
