Does H know you keep this stuff? Do you collect the good things he does too? If he knows you keep all of his "mistakes" then I would be willing to bet that it kills all of his self esteem. It would for me, wouldnt it for you?
You are in a very confusing situation right now. H wants you to make sure he doesnt screw up, but he also lies about it if you catch him. Does that really mean that he wants you checking on him like that? I really dont know. Is there a way of going about it w/out it being like a parenting role? Such as letting him know that you wont stand for it, but you arent going to play his mommy and scold him for doing these things?
FLoyd The grass is always GREENER over the septic tank.
