I know you don't want to get into the nitty gritty of what went on with your H but if you want to talk offline let me know. I am wondering if your H recognizes the damage he did and if he has true remorse for it. Is he giving you what you need? Are you getting outside help? I guess I am just really tuned in to other people's pain right now because my own is so acute. I have always thought that you handle yourself well on this forum and I'll bet that you do so in life as well. I have no doubt that you will negotiate this challenge with flying colors. What friends do you have to help you through?
