I understand your feelings about this, but I don't understand your anger. I will say this out of respect and I truly hope you hear this the way I intend it. You're anger gets the best of you at times. I hope you can find peace within. You have so much to offer.
Mickey
Mickey ~ Nothing I have written previously on this thread was written in anger. Fig doesn't make me "angry" and for a long time I just thought she was particularly sweet. But between her bulldog-like defense of Lissett when she perceived someone to have offended her to her continual waxing poetically about someone who is simply human like the rest of us, my opinion slowly began to turn from one of amusement towards the realization that if a male poster spoke of Lissie that way, we'd all be waving a red flag and thinking him obsessive. Call it what you want as condescendingly as you wish, but I said what I wanted to say having no idea of the landslide of emails I would receive in support of it proving that it obviously isn't just me that thinks something is amiss. If you or anyone else has anything they'd like to say to me on this subject let me know and I'd be glad to send you my email address.