My wife wants out !!

[dadtotwo]

Last week I discovered the cell phone my W has been using to keep her calls to OM secret when we were still together and even now since she moved out. It is a rechargeable phone that she bought the cards for on D-day when I was at work. She says that the phone was necessary because I was checking her calls. Yet, I wasn't even home all day and had to come home and find her on the phone with OM at midnight. She does not deny the talking to OM but sees that she did nothing wrong since "nothing happened". They were just "talking" and he was being supportive since he just went through his own D(what a crock of s**t)

She says that this OM is all new and that she doesn't know where it is going. OM lives around the block from where we lived(where I still do) and OM is recently divorced with children.

How does a S justify secret talks as "nothing happened" just because it didn't become a PA while we were still together??