Morgan-- So, here we are, in the exact same moment in space and time. Except my H isn't even crying (that I know of). Happy as a lark with his choice; no crying or remorse.
He won't talk to me or see me; even the emails are cold.
He is skipping his nephew's birthday party to go away with her.
I know that sometimes, we just have to feel the hurt and the pain. But I hope that you are feeling it for a while, then getting onto something else. I actually use a timer--no more than 1/2 hour. Then, off to bed or get busy doing something.
Remember, they CAN'T think about us--we are the mirror, showing them the reality of their terrible choices and failures. They don't see us at all right now, just how much they screwed up.
I'm thinking about you and your kids today--and looking forward to the event!
If I get a chance to go up towards your neck of the woods before that, I will make sure to let you know.
