It's good to hear things are getting somewhat easier for you emotionally. It will get easier with time. Its a great idea to spend weekends at your parents place. I find that when I am doing an overnighter for work, or if I spend a night at my sisters, it is the most relaxing sleep I have.
Also, just keep yourself as busy as you can whilst the D process is taking place. Keep doing what you are doing, it will take your mind off things. Good to see you are getting back into your work. This took me ages also, but now I am enjoying it more than before.
Let your W worry about timeframes and let her rush through things if she wishes, you just let your L handle things.
