CE-That's a long time to deny something like that. Do you have any proof? (If not, and he didn't do it, I wonder how much time he spends thinking that he should have just gone ahead and done it...)
He has admitted to the EA, denies the PA, says they kissed a few times nothing more. I found out and busted it or it probably would have gone further. We don't talk about it much anymore. When we do he sometimes says he did nothing wrong, they were just friends, other times he says he is sorry for the pain he caused me. Says he would never do it again knowing how bad it hurt me but will then turn around and say "I did nothing wrong!" I think that's why some of my trust issues are still around. If you don't believe you did something wrong what's to stop you from doing it again? For me I think a one night stand would have been less painful because of the lies and deceit that went along with the EA.
I understand what you are saying about me accusing so he should of gone ahead... I am trying very hard but some issues have come up recently that are stirring things up. I thought I was doing great, I thought WE were doing great and then I caught him in a lie in early Aug. and a recent cell phone call to a female at 1:00 AM has brought up some issues for me.
Love at first sight is easy to understand; it's when two people have been looking at each other for a lifetime that it becomes a miracle. (Amy Bloom)
