I'm doing good. Just coasting along, feeling peaceful, getting back into work, taking care of the kids. My youngest is playing football in middle school so that has been good. My wife came to watch him play last week, she hadn't been around for more than a month and had only visited once in maybe 6-8wks for 2 days for my oldest son's 16th birthday. She'll be back next week for another 5 day visit. It is both fantastic and frustrating when she is around, but I'm doing ok with it. I've pretty much stopped all contacting of her, she calls me and txt msg me almost daily. I'll call her or send her a txt msg out of the blue once in awhile to mix it up a bit or I'll send her info about the kids or a picture of them or something.
My disappearance from here was just to see how much writing about what was going on and reading about everyone else's seperations, divorces, cheating spouses and all the other crap that WAS and MLC spouses like to inflict on LBSes was contributing to my depression or not. I also decided to stop rehashing my marriage problems with just about everyone but my therapist. I don't know how much taking a break from here helped, but I am doing good. I also was spending a lot of time reading and writing on here, now I'm trying to do other things with my time. Not sure if I'll around yet, feeling things out, reading some about you and Nikki and the others that I used to follow religiously and I'll see how it goes from there. You can always email me for an update if ya miss me
Take care, I might have to think about the back waxing, -jdk
