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I sense the same delusion of grandeur we saw in Dancer 15. The belief that she is entitled to 2 men to satisfy her needs. One to support her and watch the children as necessary, and the other to court her. It's a lovely world isn't it. Does she have a fairy godmother with a wand to make it happen?

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It goes back to that sense of entitlement they have. They did nothing wrong and they deserve everything to go their way so they can be happy. They do not care whose happines they squash to get there.




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Man... CW better not meet up with any of the women here!

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LOL...MC--you've got a posse. ;\)


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Thanks ladies. S16 and I had a concession job tonight. We forgot some parts at home and while I was running home to get them, I called S16's cell. CW answered, because he had forgotten it. She talked for several minutes and when I kind of blew her off and was trying to end the conversation, she replied, "why are you treating me this way?"

I honestly do not know what she wants from me, but I don'tknow if I have it in me anymore to deal with this. She called about 11pm to see if we were home and if we were still planning to go to the pancake breakfast she horned her way into tomorrow.

She has been like gum on my shoe today.

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MC,

I think it is her goal to have two men on her fishing line. If you swim away, that ruins her plan. She wants both, and she's going keep trying to outsmart you to keep you on her line.

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Another tidbit from tonights convo, she said that she didn't want to have R talks if we were only going to end up hurting each other. She said that some hurtful things were said today and she didn't want to go that way. WTF


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You should start dating so she can see that she is losing you.

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Relationship talks by yourselves are like dynamite, all you need is a spark and the whole thing explodes. I would hold out for only relationship talks with MC or go to Retrouvaille and deal with it. Either one will give you some traction. Do it yourself just goes round and round. Hell you had one today.

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That is morally wrong. We are married still. How do I date and still do what is right and stand up for my marriage???


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