yet another question: what are your thoughts on pictures? Immediately after the seperation, I went around and collected all the pics of W and me around the house and took them down. I set them on her desk for her to take when she comes to get her stuff in a couple of weeks. Now, with things moving in a slighty more positive direction, I know that I need to put some of them back especially so that if she ever comes to my place, she sees them. But I'm not sure I want them out all the time to remind me during those frequent periods of doubt I get. A friend has suggested that if I really want this to work, I'll put them out and leave them out but I don't know if I can handle that so I was thinking that I'll have some here and put them out when I know W is in town in case she comes over. Thoughts?


Me: 32 in OH
Wife: 29 in MD
Married: 4 years
No kids
Seperated 14 months