The thing is that's awesome that you took this crisis and turned it into an opportunity. You've done a lot of work on yourself. GOOD JOB!
Now what work has H done on himself? He's an alcoholic. He drinks and drives and he is attracted to lowlife losers.
I think dont worry about ow for the time being. He seriousely could have a felony because of her.
Just work on getting him to a counselor. You enjoy each toher's time, so enjoy it. Don't bring up ow or R talk unless you are at the counselor.
If you want to have sex with him, just make sure you protect yourself. After you get him to a counselor a few times, then you can start discussing this stuff there in safety.
