Karen1 I am petrified that I have done my smallest son a disservice by being so freaking old when I had him. I will be 40 in November.

Karen, my mother was 41 when she had me and that was in the end of 1943.

BB's brother & W are raising 2 of their grand kids (10ish) and his W is 67.

Lots of Native American grandmothers raise their grand kids. Many of the grand parents were raised by their grand parents way back when.

Stay healthy, eat right, exercise, do the medical care, and you can be a grandparent to your latest son's children.

Lou