Originally Posted By: karen1
and I am petrified that I have done my smallest son a disservice by being so freaking old when I had him. I will be 40 in November.


Karen, I had my four children very young (22 - 28). I often wish I could have had one later in life as I feel I would have not made some of the serious mistakes I made then.

You did not do your newest son a disservice. The fact that you worry about that proves it is not true. Besides, they say 60 is the new 40. If so, 40 must be at least the new 25...


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