W8
"Are you able to make a decision, whether if it is that you want him back, or if you want to be friends, or whatever, under these conditions?"

No, W8. That is why I need some space. I think it would also be good for him to have space from me, too. Perhaps H will miss me a little. As of now, shows no sign of it. Seldom seems to linger.

But H has OW and I do not--he likely will not get lonely.

Snodderly, do you have any comments? I feel lost as I have been working so hard.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D