I agree with what w8ing said. There has to be some boundaries set, whether you are DB'ing or not. Doing ow's laundry at your home is inappropriate to say the least. This shouldn't continue. He needs to do it elsewhere. Find a laundromat for goodness' sake. Your H is very much in replay right now and could be stuck there for quite some time. I wouldn't worry too much about what he says re: D because we've all heard that threat thrown around at various times. He was in a bad mood, thus he said no LS; I want a D. He'll probably have changed his mind again tomorrow. Please set some boundaries with him. Take care of yourself most of all!
Last edited by hopefloats7; 09/22/0701:37 AM.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
