Don't you dare and just assume they are together and deal with it that way. I wish I could see your house and have a play date with your kids! I hear that kids in separation really thrive if they can play with other kids of single parent homes. They do not even have to talk about divorce or separation. They just need to know it happens to other kids too.
If you want to focus on Vegas, do it. Talk about it until it is exorcised from your heart. Purge away. That is what we are here for, troubles big and small. But know this, no trist or fling with a hussy anywhere can take the place of time spent at home snuggling with the wife and kids on a cool fall day. I know that we are the biggest threat to affairs everywhere, but who gives a sh#$.
They suck if they are having an affair. If they continue they will be old and alone. New grass becomes old grass. Upgrade.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
