Hey SD - glad to hear you loving life, even with the turd in the picture!! I do have to ask.. is there ANY reason for her to be calling your H at home? I'm really thinking he should put a stop to that if not.
Not officially. You know I've been feeling stuff on my radar recently...and H just doesn't share information about her or his friend (who was dating her last I heard) like he used to. Honestly, if I were a betting woman, I'd say the two of them broke up. Suddenly the cripsy-haired whore is calling, and tonight H is out with his male friends from work for a drink...which includes the whore's boyfriend. Whore's boyfriend (from henceforth known as WB) has also been calling H more wanting to do stuff. So I'm guessing something is up there.
To be fair, LW never acted in any way like she had feelings for H. I do think she was aware of his (he's anything but subtle, my H), and she did nothing to discourage those feelings. H is a great friend to have....but I really think any sort of friendship there is inappropriate. Don't know quite how/if to deal with that.
Even now, I'm more just tired and a little annoyed that she's suddenly interested in talking to H again. It takes way too much energy to worry about her and what he's going to do.
So, well, who knows. I'm too pooped to care.
Julie: read the amazingness of your life on your thread. Way to show STBXH what it's like w/out you...the responsibility he has. What's "best for D4" seems to be relative to his own happiness. Like, whatever happened to a regular bedtime and all that? He's a deflated erection at best, sweetie. You have great things in store for you!
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
