You guys are not going to believe what happened on my date today. I am in shock. First let me tell you "who" my date is so that NOP can get credit for serious skills. He is 52 and never married although he does have two sons (22,12) he raised/raises alone as a single father. He almost got married when he was 22 but he actually left his bride at the altar because he knew he wasn't ready (Not sorry for decision. Sorry for hurting people.) As I mentioned above he played football for Alabama. He has been a working musician since childhood (played with Parliament!)and was also an auto designer and owned a martial arts studio. Luckily, his appearance in person wasn't nearly as terrifying as his picture although he is in fantastic shape for his age.

Anyway, we met for coffee and after a leisurely amount of small talk, the man started telling me his whole philosophy of relationships and sexuality (note: NOP also right on ex-player theory. I almost started cracking up because the man was like "When I was young I was all about hit it, hit it, hit it...)and what he was looking for in a relationship and sexually and pretty much non-stop grilling me about what I was looking for in a relationship and sexually. The unbelievable part is that he was pretty much talking about all the things we always discuss on this BB except using different phrases and analogies. So, it was like I was pinned in the diner booth being forced to be honest because he was saying such incredibly honest things to me.

So we talked for about 3 hours and here's what is going to happen.

1) He's not going to have casual sex with me because sex is too important.

2) He's going to introduce me to his son so that I can trust him.

3) He's going to take me out to do fun things like we're probably going to the casino this week.

"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver