If there was ever a time I wish I had the wisdom to know what to tell another sister female....it is now. I can't imagine being in your shoes! If anyone had a reason to be depressed, you certainly do. Has your doctor ruled that out? I'm sure you've had almost everything suggested or implied to you.
Did your H ever react like this after the birth of any of the other babies? When I began to read your post, I thought it was your first baby and so I was shocked to discover it was your fourth. Do you think he is in MLC? If I were in your shoes I would be the one in MLC.....for sure! Has there been any other signs of disinterest in the M besides not wanting sex? Not that that is not enough......I was just wonderfing if he spends a lot of time on the internet or anything like that. Any bad habits....like gambling? Just grasping at straws here.....nothing more.
Karen, sweetie, we all need to vent and especially a mother of four, new baby, full time job, etc., etc., etc.,....lordy--mercy, I don't know how you do it. It sounds like you need an extened vacaction away from the family. I know you can't do that.....but you sound so wore out...with very good reason.
Please stay in touch and let us know what is going on b/c we care and want to be here for you.
Sandi2
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
