All those thoughts are counter productive to your growth and J3B is right no one has those answers...be sure to check out our resources. if you obsess its standing still and drags you down...i would know this because I did it.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
