LOL. She's talking to you huh? See, she is not as mad as she wants you to think she is.

I would say let her do her thing with the couches. You do not want to be separated, so why support her idea of it by helping her to choose furniture. Maybe you can accompany her, but let her shop. I went with my wife to look at apartments for her to show a little support, but, I refused to go in and look at the actual units. I drove her around for better part of a day, but I politely waited in the lobby or outside with our S. I did not give her my opinion nor did I fight the fact that she was looking. I just listened and validated what she was saying. Went rather well overall. Just a thought.


“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED”
“You have to have a life to share a life with someone”
“When you stop resisting, you start learning”

M15yrs
Divorced 07/07