we have gentler kinder 2 x 4's...but tother board is right your H is on his own journey..with NO time frame. to have any shot at restoring your M you need to look after you. you need to work on you. the bonus being you will be better for it whether your H comes back or not.


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest