i am too sorry that he found this and posted no less. and Everyone here knows that there are two sides to every story but YOU are the one that is here trying to make things better.
Homeplate, not for nothing but you are the one who had the affair, Kali is here to get help in saving her marriage and that is too be commended.
A spouse who chooses this route to go on I have no respect for, You say you respect her, well you can't possibly respect her if you are cheating on her. irreguardless of the problems in your marriage, be it your fault or hers, An Affair is not going to help matters and certainly is not going to fix anything.
Thinking of you kali.. we are here for you.
xxoo TAL
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
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