You got it Nomo! That was it for me. As soon as I GAL, didn't allow those bad hurtful feelings and was able to communicate with my H with out anger and pain, things started to fall into place. Really, as soon as I was out having fun and thinking I could get used to this, bang! Here he came. If that is what you want for yourself, I hope you get it. If not, you are on your way to what ever your new journey is. Take care, S
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.