Dom R - first thanks for posting, while I can't agree with everything you said. I ppreciate the candor and honesty.
Yes many things you say are right - and even now I am making mistakes because I want this to work but none of my efforts (good or bad) are getting through.
Where I will disagree with you, with respect, is over accountability - I think my first thread very succintly states I accept 'most' of the blame for where we are at in our M today. Now if you feel I am going about recovering from that in the right way - fair enough - but no sir, I very clearly and tacitly accept responsibility for my actions and am trying to recover from that for us no matter how bad things might be.
Am I resigned to another DV - at times I am, and at times I am totally determined to recover - so with respect, what should I now do, in the next 3 months, in your view to help turn this sitch that I created around?
Me - 39 W - 33 M - 5yrs Bomb - 8/5 2007 Moving out - 9/8 2007
