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That's good to hear! Get some sleep now!


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22 year M, MLC, Piecing since 1/07
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So much goodness in my life...

My partner teacher is the science and math teacher, and she is brilliant. She believes all of Newton's laws apply to our real lives....

And that's why the Law of Attraction works. The more I follow my bliss, the more I pursue what fills me up rather than depletes me, the better it is. So much happy goodness here....

I feel lucky, but I know it's through my choices and thoughts that my life is so good. Thank God for the bomb. It changed my life!

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Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
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I feel lucky, but I know it's through my choices and thoughts that my life is so good. Thank God for the bomb. It changed my life


Ditto, sweets... ditto.

Glad you are feeling so great. It's quite lovely on you!


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Originally Posted By: SDFoundGirl

I feel lucky, but I know it's through my choices and thoughts that my life is so good. Thank God for the bomb. It changed my life!

SD
SOOOOOOO true darling! I can't imagine where I would be without it.


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M: 13yrs D: 12/12/08
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Thanks for checking in Julie & Scott. Life is good!

Yes, life is good even though that beotch has called H at home two evenings in the past two weeks. She is a tuuuurrrrrrrrrrddddd.

Freeze dried I say!

Love my life lots. Even with that crispy-headed ho-bag invading my head space. Think I will envision putting her in a bubble and setting her out to sea...to sink to Atlantis. Bleh...

Nighty night!

SD


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You sound great, chica!! So glad for that. So glad you love your life lots. You deserve that. Keep plugging along.


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Hey SD - glad to hear you loving life, even with the turd in the picture!! I do have to ask.. is there ANY reason for her to be calling your H at home? I'm really thinking he should put a stop to that if not.


Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
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Originally Posted By: NikkiB
Hey SD - glad to hear you loving life, even with the turd in the picture!! I do have to ask.. is there ANY reason for her to be calling your H at home? I'm really thinking he should put a stop to that if not.


Not officially. You know I've been feeling stuff on my radar recently...and H just doesn't share information about her or his friend (who was dating her last I heard) like he used to. Honestly, if I were a betting woman, I'd say the two of them broke up. Suddenly the cripsy-haired whore is calling, and tonight H is out with his male friends from work for a drink...which includes the whore's boyfriend. Whore's boyfriend (from henceforth known as WB) has also been calling H more wanting to do stuff. So I'm guessing something is up there.

To be fair, LW never acted in any way like she had feelings for H. I do think she was aware of his (he's anything but subtle, my H), and she did nothing to discourage those feelings. H is a great friend to have....but I really think any sort of friendship there is inappropriate. Don't know quite how/if to deal with that.

Even now, I'm more just tired and a little annoyed that she's suddenly interested in talking to H again. It takes way too much energy to worry about her and what he's going to do.

So, well, who knows. I'm too pooped to care.

Julie: read the amazingness of your life on your thread. Way to show STBXH what it's like w/out you...the responsibility he has. What's "best for D4" seems to be relative to his own happiness. Like, whatever happened to a regular bedtime and all that? He's a deflated erection at best, sweetie. You have great things in store for you!

SD


Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
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