I don't see that OT is saying that H has not owned up to his roll in problems with the M, she is saying that just getting back together and getting OM out of the picture is not the solution. She is saying that the underlying issue that brought their marriage to where it is today need to be dealt with first. Unless they are dealt with then the R has no chance.
“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”
