Is OT correct? I agree we all have to stop the chase, give time and space, focus on ourselves (what we control), but have you really not owned up to the problems in your M that led here. OT's post surprised me, but I have to admit I haven't been following you or your sitch closely. Just loosely.
Nomo
M 39 W 39 M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs S7 D4 Bomb 5-8-05 W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22 DB 4-10 S 6-11 No more C Link