Heim, OT is right. You know it and I know it. What she says rings just as true for me as it does for you. We both need to heed her advice, even as difficult and against our own judgment as it may be. She is 100% correct.
"LEAVE HER BE. QUIT TRYING TO INSERT YOURSELF INTO HER LIFE." wise words to live by.
“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”