OK... so W came home after work and wanted to work out. I have an office in the basement, so I was in the basement while she was working out. Backup a little to a conversation prior that we had. Her M got her a washer and dryer today (thanks MIL) and so I need to give her the money we agreed to. I told her it would have to be on my next paycheck. Now... she's taking the couch and loveseat with her, and she was even having MIL steamclean them for her, but today she mentions that she wants to check out a local store that has some sales going on. I kept my cool, but I mentioned that I wouldn't be able to cover all of her horse board since I just bought the girls a new bedroom set and paid for some other stuff (ferrier for the horses, her water bill, her security deposit) and here she is going to blow money on NEW couches???
I let it roll, but it will be a conversation that needs to be had. While she was talking about this (she wants me to go with her to pick something out) she mentions again how she's mad as heck but wants to be civil.
She works out and we talk.. actually, I asked how her day was and she talked the whole time and I listened. It was like nothing was going on.. she seemed happy.. laughed etc.
So strange!!
Oh yeah... she did text me today out of the blue to thank me for the lunch I made her.. she said it was good.