I am not giddy that someone else doesn't. I'm not quit sure of where the idea that I was giddy came from.
I think that an abusive person, someone who has threatened harm to his wife and children will not wake up nor do I think suggesting they will is in any way empowering or uplifting. I think helping Lissie know that she deserves better than that is important. And no...an abusive person like that will never be worthy of a good person.
You can be weirded out all you want. It doesn't bother me. I am sorry that it bothers you. Lissie is my best friend and I love her like a sister...
I'm sorry if that seems weird.
it doesn't seem weird to me or to her or to our other friends. I sometimes forget that not everyone is privy to our friendships. Any friend I have at that level I love and talk about in the same way.