Had to step up last night and call W on something she seem to be fusing over. She did understand that I was just sitting there filling time, waiting for her, not trying to take over what she was doing. She really loves the martyr thing, but too often doesn't see the whole picture. Anyhow, after I explained things to her, we sat and did fine.
Some days she seems to be getting back into her old cycle, but I'm not going to take ownership of her issues, but I'm going to find out what I am doing wrong and address it.
