Thanks for the news Me, and congrats on your reconcilliation! I have a couple questions though if you could answer, but I understand if you would not want to do so.

Who walked away in your case? Was there an OP?

What was the impetus for the reconciliation?

Do you plan to remarry?

Me: 48
Ex-W: 45
M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93
Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06
OM
Separated: mid-Feb '07
Divorced mid-July '08
One daughter - 28
XW living w/OM