Hey PS, Glad the session was productive. I agree with your C that your H needs to hit bottom ( unfortunately). That seems to be the way it works. I think you need to be careful not to cast yourself in the role of bad parent...this is what your H tries to do. I think that's what they all try to do. So set limits with him, but keep an air of sexy vitality about you, if that makes any sense. And remember that even though you are burdened with being the responsible one, to have fun, and to project that. It's good for you!