Yes, it does seem like a million years ago and I STILL have this woman in my life because of the girls.
Yes, my X pulls the same thing on me too as your X does. The only problem is that I bite the bait sometimes and let it get to me. It is rare that this happens but I am only human.
The case in point, the X has Saturdays and she HAS to go to this function that would cause D7 to miss her soccer game if I didn't help out because her fam. help has dried up. I have to work that night but I told her in no way D7 going to miss her game because X has to go out socially. What I did was work it so that gf and I would go to the game (first time gf meeting X) and they would drop me off at work.
I don't know how this leaves me because 1. X is ditching our girls for her own good not theirs, 2. She really doesn't care if gf watches our girls who she has never met, 3. I'm going to play very cool but I am wondering..........this is going to be weird, my gf meeting my X.
I have the Catholic guilt and my X doesn't, that is apparent. I could never be selfish over my Ds happiness, I simply put them first in my life.
Any thoughts?
I believe that dreams are more powerful than facts,that laughter is the only cure for grief. And I believe that love is stronger than death
